Is your mate free to receive your love or do they still live in the prison of reciprocity? Are they filled with a motivation to say “thank you” just so you know they are thankful? If you are with a mate who lives in a world driven by obligation, thank you cards, paybacks, and one-ups today you can set them free! Give them the permission to simply receive loving gestures from you. PERIOD. Tell them the only way they can say thank you is to feel thankful. Then you can show them they could receive, without guilt. Freedom to give for the sake of giving, freedom to receive simply because it was being given Wow the freedom! Closing the gap between how much you love them and how much they feel loved is a cornerstone to a healthy relationship. When you let go of expecting appreciation for your loving gestures, you give your mate the freedom to receive them. Then your loving gestures have impact and the power to show your love instead of proving your love.
Chances are your mate has imagined it but never felt it. Give them the permission to just receive with feeling thankful and set them free.
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