While it seems easy to fall in love, especially according to
Hollywood, what happens when the romance of the century or just a good
relationship goes bad? The feelings don’t just go away they linger. There is almost this invisible force that
pulls you back into the relationship. It
may even feel like the person has this magical string tied to your heart and
you can’t break away. I’ve seen people
hold on for years and years without ever being able to let go of the love. So how do you fall out of love? Above all else you must choose to stop acting on the feeling. But until then these three steps will get you
started.
1. Stop feeding the love. The loving thoughts, and loving gestures you
once gave them, cease. Even in great
relationships when the love stops getting fed, it dies off naturally.
2. Refocus on what your life purpose is if
you know it. If not, focus on the
qualities you enjoy the most about yourself.
Allow the love you once gave to them to flow into you.
3. Allow yourself the time to grieve the
emotions and heal. This process is
different for everyone.
The
more invested in the relationship the more you become conditioned to being with
that person. The phone calls, text, the
time spent. Almost like
an addiction, your body and mind become conditioned to feeling that
connection. When the person is no
longer, the desire for the connection remains almost creating and internal
revolt. These three steps are designed
to break the ties from the person that create the attraction and connection.
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